marti and erin.com

Firstly, I am sorry to have neglected our blog for so long. Trust me, once I get through tomorrow night, I’ll have much to say.

And secondly, Marti Beth, I am sorry to inform you that the lax dress code you witnessed is not just limited to Broadway. Last month, I attended a black-tie-optional wedding at a temple outside of Washington, DC. I am further sorry to tell you that there was more than one man there in Dockers. Oh yes, Dockers.

I understand that black tie is a PITA. I get it. Never mind that guys have the option to rent this attire, while most of us women purchase the garb needed for these events….(it’s our own fault that we don’t turn to the few places that rent women’s formal wear). HOWEVER, for the love of Pete, wear a suit. Wear a sportcoat. Wear a TIE, at the very, very, very, very least. I don’t understand the reluctance of people to dress appropriately, especially when appropriate attire is outlined for you in the invitation.

Peripherally, while I’m not a religious woman, let me also say that if I go to any house of worship, I’m not going in shorts or jeans. I can’t tell you how many Masses I went to with Jackass where people (including Jackass) were sporting their best OP courduroy shorts.

And so, I am with you. Up with appropriate attire, my friend!